Youve also been influenced by perverse secular culture. My father could sit on his self worshipping bottom the whole time my mother suffered through pregnancy and birth, he did not have to dread horrific genital pain, he sure got a thrill that she did. However you and Anne, and all the other self-congratulating politically-correct thinkers in this thread are quite prompt to label other people mentally sick. Mark 11:26 But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses. [redacted] is originally from England and is unfamiliar with local laws and believed Jamin. And now for the part that might get me consigned to the doghouse: He is one pompous donkey. How does a Christian man go about introducing Domestic Discipline into his marriage and what techniques actually work? Now, I am not condoning what happened to Lauren, because it appears she was not consenting. My father hated women and little girls, he hated raped little girls, he hated two year old little girls. Ive been exploring submission for some time, and the one thing that I have discovered above anything else is the fact that wifely submission brings harmony to a home. Our church pastor growing up would talk about disciplining according to emotional age, not actual age. You see women in an inferior place. You need to be more Christ-like, Jesus never told a woman that she had to be subject to any man, have sex with her husband against her will. Biblical Principles Which Determine a WomansWeight, Biblical Principles Which Determine a MansWeight. It is very disturbing to read. In the case you need to discipline your wife while on a voyage, you know you can do so without attracting attention. But what about husbands who are not following the Lord and asks them to violate the word of God. I disagree with you, but like Rock, I do not think that you are sick. No-one ever gives a better interpretation, they just holler at me as if the one who shouts loudest must be right. Do not strike faces or heads and going through Judges 4:9 all the way to Eph 5:23 and 1Tim 2:12). He may try using a different name, or he may try some other such subterfuge, but he WILL be back. Jennas Punishment Spanking (Christian Domestic Discipline Marriage #1) During a disagreement, Jenna storms out of the house without telling her husband where she's going. You are not making any case, you are simply asserting that your personal religious views are better and therefore should be turned into laws. WebThen I went to college and met my husband James, and became a Christian. I want any other women reading this to know that your (Lone Voices) position is NOT biblical, and God created women to lead and teach men if he gifted them in those areas, and God created women to be equals with men in marriage. I cant imagine anyone here wants 100pinkapples to suffer from her trauma forever. I WASNT SCARED!!!! S&M? I read someone say they did have to obey, even in that, because she is to obey in EVERYTHING. Feminism is merely a modern Western aberration. These abused wivesare treated as children or objects to be owned. Women would rather be loved than respected. My husband is in seminary to be a music minister and I noticed that he doesnt spank me like he used to. The truth is, the abuse labelling has less to do with the fact itself than with your opinion on the matter and your decision to condemn it and declare it morally unacceptable. As far as your point is made. You simply cannot say that as the visitors at my site are widely diverse. So if not understanding DD is not understanding justice then you are already acknowledging that DD is non-consensual. Meanwhile, what Jesus called the two most important commandments are completely ignored. (Do you know the difference between them?). Jesus and Paul went with out sex. Please go and speak to a pastor in a completely different church from the one they were in (I should recommend a sister in a Pentecostal church, but thats just my personal suggestion). Testimonials of Loving Domestic Discipline . We continue to call it abuse, despite the fact that it happens between two consenting* adults, and we continue to prosecute those teachers who abuse their students. While social sciences are a useful tool, you perfectly demonstrate how they can be used as a convenient tool to outlaw deranging opinions and lifestyles by justifying the move by supposed facts. The best way to get help for high risk cases of domestic abuse is to ring the DV Hotline in your country. The Biblical Case for Domestic Discipline, Follow Biblical Gender Roles on WordPress.com, Enduring and Overcoming the Trials and Temptations ofSingleness, Three Biblical Approaches to Sex inMarriage. This posthas been very difficult for me emotionally. But over it all was always this sense of control and he was the man. My wedding vows included a vow to obey and he would often remind me that God commanded wives to submit and obey their husbands as they were supposed to do towards Christ. If you get to the point were you are ready to prevent two contenting adults from living the way they choose, you are making a big disservice to any cause you pretend to serve. Christian Domestic Discipline / Spencer Respect and Submission in domestic discipline Respect and Submission are of particular importance in a marriage because the standard marriage vows for the bride always included the phrase to love, honor and obey her husband. Dont let him have the victory for a day longer. I Hate that Thing: The Loop Use only an open hand, no objects The Bible doesnt say that never-married adult women have to submit to a man, or any men, certainly not American women in the year 2015. I got spanked at home until I left to be with my ex when I was 21. Men ruling over women was a result of the fall, of sin entering humanity it was never Gods intent. So I would not use such laws as legitimate precedents for anything either. You take the doctor to task. WebBDSM provides a helpful framework for communication and safe, consensual exploration. Were they surprised by it? And please dont discount the experiences of those whove suffered under religious patrio-centrism or just plain chauvinism. I know for a long time I did not consider myself a battered or abused wife. If you are truly interested in learning more about that folly, there are plenty of websites and blogs and practicers on the internet. Beautiful Surrender: 13 Godly Christian Wives Beyond praying for their victims, and calling the police in instances where we have knowledge of actual abuse, there is nothing we can do or say that will make a difference. We wish we had known of a site like this when we were starting out our marriage. I know have a tremendous amount of respect for my husband. During this time my behavior, and our marriage improved through my daily spanking, but Ben was lacking in giving me spankings when I misbehaved, something I tearfully confessed during one of our meetings.